Climbing the Tingay Genealogy Tree

Branch by branch research of TINGAY - WELHAM - QUINN - HALLISEY

Monday, May 09, 2011

The perils of believing without double checking

I have been researching the TINGEY/TINGAY side of my family since 1999, sending for documentation where I could to prove my research. Checking the census records through the years since 1841. Spending hours going over fiche and micro films. And with help from others with the same name and from the same area, I was sure that I had the TINGAYs correct, back to the 1500s in Bedfordshire.

But, there was a small problem with my GGGGrandfather, Thomas TINGEY, born about 1794. The first time I found him was on the 1841 census, then 1851, 1861. And each time he said he was born in Stoke Ferry. However, I had been told, and believed, that he had been born in Wretton, Norfolk. And there was a Thomas, born in Wretton too. Just not my Thomas though! Last year came the wake up call that I had to concentrate on Stoke Ferry. Forget the rest. Research another family. And here I am. About to start on Thomas son of Cole TINGEY of Stoke Ferry. A door has opened. I just have not walked through it yet.

The moral of this story - check, check and check again. However much of a match you think you have, make sure in every way you can that it is right. And go with your instincts sometimes...

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Friday, February 09, 2007

T.B. TINGAY: death certificate; grave stone


Before I turn away from Thomas Burgess TINGAY's death, I will post the details of his death certificate.
This was in the Registration District of Tendring, Sub District of Thorpe in the County of Essex. The date 23rd August 1918 on the Pier at Walton on the Naze.
Thomas Burgess Tingay, age 40 of 71 Garrett Lane, Wandsworth, A Lance Corporal in the 646th London Field Company, Royal Engineers (Electrical Engine Driver).
Cause of death: The exploding of an explosive storehouse. The death was registered by B Briant, Lt. R E T, in charge of the body. 646th London Field Company, Frinton on Sea. The death was registered on the 28th August 1919.

The following is taken from the Frinton Gazette of the day:
Explosion on a Pier. Three soldiers killed.

"About half-past 2 o’clock on a Friday afternoon, Aug. 23, a heavy explosion involving the death of three soldiers, occurred at an East Coast seaside resort.

The windows of the Pier Hotel, with those of nearly all the houses on the sea front, were destroyed. The explosion was at first attributed to a drifting mine, but it was found that a shed on the pier, used to store explosives, had blown up, and that a sergeant and two sappers of the Royal Engineers had lost their lives.

One of the soldiers had been talking just before to a lad fishing from the pier, and just after the sapper re-entered the shed, the explosion occurred. Several visitors were struck by flying pieces of wood from the shed, but none was seriously hurt. Except for the disappearance of the shed, the pier is intact. Those who received slight injuries included Mr. H.H. Weatherall, of Colchester, who was struck by a flying fragment from the debris. A lad who was standing close to the shed at the time was uninjured. Mr. R.C. Evans, son of Mr. T. A. Evans of North Hill, Colchester, who was fishing a little distance away also escaped injury, though standing close to Mr. Weatherall, who was slightly hurt on the leg. Mr. Brown, formerly chief clerk at the Colchester Post Office, and now retired, was also on the pier, but came to no harm.

Prompt assistance was rendered by the police and other helpers and the soldiers who survived the explosion were conveyed to the hospital.

A distressing incident in connection with the disaster was the arrival from Manchester of the wife and family of one of the soldiers killed, an hour or two after the explosion.

The damage to windows will prove difficult of repair in these times. The explosion, as is so often the case, was strangely freakish in its glass-breaking results. On the Marine Parade comparatively few houses suffered, but at a terrace not far distant many large windows have been blown in, and another terrace looks almost as if it had been bombarded, many of the window frames having been blown in bodily. Some quaint old red-brick houses that stand in a semi-circle above and behind a well-known hotel have very few windows intact, but one house entirely escaped damage. At the hotel all the ground floor windows are intact, but the large upper windows were shattered. On a cliff southwards one large window in a house was blown in, but all the adjoining and less lofty residences escaped damage. The pier, which is now closed to visitors, has sustained very slight structural damage, except that the shed in which the explosion occurred has vanished.

A lady who was bathing on the sea front some time after the explosion had a gruesome experience; she found in the water a soldier’s boot with the foot in it.

At the parish church on Sunday evening the preacher made sympathetic reference to the disaster, and referred to the providential escape of the two visitors and special prayers were offered for the relatives of the unfortunate men. At another place of worship a collection was taken on behalf of the wives and families of the deceased men and the sum of five guineas obtained.

The funeral of Lance-Corpl. T.B. Tingay took place on Thursday morning with full military honours, the coffin being born to the grave by a military bearer party and the service being concluded with the three volleys and the sounding of the “Last Post” by the buglers of the infantry unit stationed in the neighbourhood. There were many beautiful floral tributes, among them being three wreaths from the N.C.O.s and men of the R.E. Coy to which deceased belonged, and three tributes from the officers of the Company.

During the morning the remains of Sergt. Butler (who belongs to London) and Sapper Leah (who belongs to Manchester) were conveyed to the station for internment in their respective towns, the military following each to the railway station. A subscription list has been opened for the widows and families of the deceased men in a neighbouring town, and this is appealing strongly to the generous support of the townspeople."
The information was very kindly provided for me by someone living in Walton on the Naze.
Details of Thomas Burgess TINGAY can be found on the Commonwealth War Graves site, WW1 deaths.



Friday, January 26, 2007

Walton-on-the-Naze, Essex

(I have not been at this for some time, but this does not mean I have not been hard at my genealogy. It just never stops!)

Since I found my father's father, Thomas Burgess TINGAY, I have come a long way. And as I am climbing the tree - that is going upwards from the bottom - I felt that I had reached a little milestone in that.

It was family history that Thomas Burgess TINGAY had been killed at the end of The Great War, but I knew nothing about where or when this had taken place.

With help from family, I discovered that he had been killed at the age of 40. This happened in a munitions blast on August 23, 1918 at Walton-on-the-Naze, Essex, England. He was a Lance Corporal in the 646th London Field Company Royal Engineers. Along with some fellow soldiers, he had been killed at the end of the Walton pier, where a shed containing munitions had been located. Probably munitions gathered from the sea around the pier. Perhaps someone lit a cigarette. No one knows.

So, my grandmother was left with seven children to support. But that is another story.

I am on the way back into the past.

Sunday, July 25, 2004

TINGAY, Thomas Burgess in Wereham

With Thomas B. TINGEY found in Wereham on the Census of 1881, I now wanted to be sure that I really had the right one. Always work back in genealogy was the mantra that I had been given. Always check against whatever is available in document form that you have the right person.

My next step was locating Thomas B. TINGEY's birth certificate, with the hope that the Burgess name would appear on it. And it did. Everything matched up with the Thomas B. on the census - with the name of his father written here as TINGAY:

BIRTH CERTIFICATE:
FC 165956 CERTIFIED COPY OF AN ENTRY Pursuant to the Births and Deaths Registration Act 1953
Registration District Downham1880
Birth in the Sub-district of Fincham in the County of Norfolk No. 363
When and where born: Twelfth November 1879 Wereham
Name, if any: Thomas Burgess
Sex: Boy
Name and surname of father: James TINGAY
Name, surname and maiden surname of mother: Mary Ann Tingay formerly Goddard
Occupation of father: Shoemaker
Signature, description, and residence of informant: Mary Ann Tingay, Mother Wereham
When registered: Tenth January 1880 Signature of Registrar: H F Steele Registrar

I felt that I had reached up and pulled down a branch of the tree and now I also had the names of his mother and father.

Into Norfolk, town of Wereham

So, in Norfolk, I now had some information taken from the 1881 British Census. And here (though the spelling was different than what I expected) was my father's father, along with his parents, his brothers and sister.

Dwelling: Back Street. Census Place: Wereham, Norfolk, England
Source: FHL Film 1341484 PRO Ref RG11 Piece 2006 Folio 53 Page 5

James TINGEY M 35 M Wereham, Norfolk, England
Rel: Head Occ: Shoemaker
Mary Ann TINGEY Marr 36 F Ely, Cambridge, England
Rel: Wife
William H. TINGEY Un 11 M Wereham, Norfolk, England
Rel: Son Occ: Scholar
James F. TINGEY Un 5 M Wereham, Norfolk, England
Rel: Son Occ: Scholar
Bessey M. TINGEY Un 3 F Wereham, Norfolk, England
Rel: Daur Occ: Scholar
Thomas B. TINGEY Un 1 M Wereham, Norfolk, England
Rel: Son

The next step was to get out my map and locate Wereham, Norfolk.

Tuesday, July 13, 2004

Searches in Witcham, Cambridgeshire

So, here I was looking at records for Witcham in Cambridgeshire, but could locate no TINGAYs there, or anyone named Burgess (thinking that this might be a family name) for that matter. Went through as many records that I could put my hands on, but nothing matched.

Still blundering about, genealogically speaking, I sent a note off to a website in England. I was lucky enough to receive an answer from a helpful member of the Norfolk Family History Society and it was he who told me that I was in the wrong county.

Thomas Burgess TINGAY had not been born in Cambridgeshire. He had been born in Norfolk.

Monday, July 12, 2004

First steps

My introduction to genealogy was an email, from a New Zealand first cousin twice removed. She 'introduced' me to my long forgotten grandfather Thomas Burgess TINGAY (born November 12, 1879 in Wereham, Norfolk, England), and her questions ignited my interest.

I really knew nothing about Thomas Burgess TINGAY, except that he was my grandfather who died in the Great War. Also - from a family tree copied from my father's always difficult to read writing - I thought that he had been born in Witcham, Cambridgeshire.

These were early days!

Sunday, July 11, 2004

An old English oak tree

The idea of climbing a tree seems to be a fitting description of my genealogical search.

The tree that I see in my mind's eye is one of those old English oaks, gnarled and twisted, branches so dense you can't see the top of the tree. Occasionally a leaf falls, and you reach out in all directions to try and catch it, precious as you feel each one is. That is what I feel about my search for my family history: a lot of looking up in hope, not nearly enough reaching my fingers.